secret: i want to move back to bklyn, live alone, and do a type of poly that only makes sense to me but is okay because it’s honest and well negotiated. 

feelings: embodied

sometimes my queerness is just oppositional

secrets:

1) i don’t give a fuck about gay marriage so much so that i may just avoid fb today.

(but sure, you should get married if you want to and no i probably won’t judge your politics based on it)

2) furthmore, i also don’t give a fuck about unicorns and faux rainbows

(but sure, if unicorn is a part of your queerness it should be and no i probably won’t agree with your politics based solely on that)

Feelings:

i’ll spend my effort today neither refuting nor supporting ideas of assimilation and instead continue to do work in support of my communities.